• Wanpieserino@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    They don’t hate women, they just like to dominate.

    80% of car accidents here are caused by wreckless driving by guys.

    Guys are more dominant, and dominating women is viewed as misogyny.

    Do not misunderstand. There’s no hatred for women.

    Except in niche cases like my mate that got his heart broken at age 15 when he was fat, then he went on and dated 5 girls at the same time because he didn’t trust them. Then basically kept 1 of them and is now in a long term relationship. The one girl never knowing that he did that.

    He was raised by his grandparents/single mother.

    His dad went on to have a 2nd family where he wouldn’t be a deadbeat father. So it’s kinda idk… it’s his stuff.

    So I guess there can be some hatred for women when it comes to having a broken heart and trust issues. But that’s mostly for young guys.

    Hating people is mostly a dumb thing to do, but it’s not always a choice. You get your heart broken, love turns to hate until enough time passes before it can become indifference and you move on.

    Racism… 14 year olds are idiots. They segregate themselves by how they look and sound like and start fighting with eachother.

    Russia phobia 😎 well, they done fucked up didn’t they?

    What else do we have…

    Sinophobia… scary government bruv

    Western phobia… I’ll let LMs write that one out

    Phobia’s a normal thing, gets eliminated by long term communication

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      1 year ago

      As a fat highschooler, ehen, as a fat woman highschooler, i got rejected so many times. Never once did it make me hate and distrust men. Because every person is their own.

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        1 year ago

        Get fit. Just do it. I started working out when I was 17, been doing for 12 years now. Best investment.

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      Wrong. Wrong wrong wrong.

      https://youtu.be/NNnIGh9g6fA

      Please take the time to listen to this lecture. It will genuinely help you and it’s very entertaining imo.

      Testosterone causes enforcement, not aggression or dominance of women. Enforcement. Sapolsky did a famous study on baboons about this, amd we also have a human example - Buddhist monks who go around “enforcing” peace by chanting and praying etc.

      Men hate women because they believe they should, they abuse women because they give themselves permission to do so. No other reason. Anything else is an excuse and justification for it. Read “Why Does He Do That?” By Lundy or “Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist” to learn more.

      Bigotry is a product of narcissism, which is based in delusional beliefs. A narcissist may never get better. A racial narcissist example is a white supremacist (“my race is best”), which is obviously delusional, which causes narcissistic supply every time they confront it and refuse to let the delusion be corrected. They then will act out, eg say racist slurs, to enforce their racial narcissism on others to satisfy their brain chemistry (it’s deeply uncomfortable to resist unlearning delusional beliefs when faced with evidence, so they satisfy the histamine with adrenaline rushes included by being antisocial).

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        1 year ago

        Le chat:

        "Men are statistically more likely to be violent than women, according to various studies and data. This tendency is reflected in higher rates of violent crimes, such as intimate partner violence, murder, assault, and rape, where men are the predominant perpetrators. Several factors contribute to this disparity:

        1. Biological Factors: Evolutionary perspectives suggest that male aggression has been shaped by sexual selection, where men compete more intensely for access to mates. This competition has led to physical characteristics such as larger size and strength, which are associated with greater physical aggressiveness.

        2. Social and Cultural Factors: Social conditioning and societal expectations play a significant role. Men are often encouraged to be aggressive and dominant, while women are typically socialized to be more submissive and passive.

        3. Neurological Differences: Studies using fMRI and EEG have shown differences in brain activity related to aggression. Men tend to have higher amygdala activation during provocation, which is associated with impulsive aggression.

        4. Behavioral Differences: From a young age, boys and girls exhibit different levels of physical aggression. While both genders peak in physical aggressiveness between two and four years old, girls learn to suppress these behaviors more quickly than boys.

        5. Types of Aggression: Men tend to express physical, overt, and direct aggression more frequently, whereas women are more likely to engage in relational and indirect forms of aggression.

        These factors combined contribute to the overall higher levels of violence observed in men compared to women."

        https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4643362/

        https://science.howstuffworks.com/life/inside-the-mind/emotions/men-more-violent.htm

        https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S187704281200287X

        https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/behavioral-neuroscience/articles/10.3389/fnbeh.2018.00081/full

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        Narcissism is a scapegoat. Since a narcissist doesn’t know they are a narcissist. So the person can never defend themselves against you calling them a narcissist.

        The term has been overused in the past few decades. I would only accept it if a well trained psychologist/psychiatrist would claim it about people. Otherwise, just can’t trust the source.

        Everytime some folks talk about racial supremacy… they always talk about white supremacy and call it bad. Then I’d just say something like what about Han supremacy? Then they just act like it doesn’t exist.

        All this bullshit can be fun, but there’s a lot of factors at play.

        You can’t say it’s all nurture and no nature. The differences are far too big. In Belgium guys and girls are raised together. The same schools, the same families, the same government funding.

        Sure there vast differences between the two female CFO’s I’ve worked for. Same for the male employers I’ve worked for. The two that showed signs of aggression were both large people. A woman and a man. They physically had the ability to cause damage on someone else.

        My mom was the one doing the reckless driving and my dad drives perfectly. Aggression comes from my mom’s side of the family and level headedness from my dad’s side of the family.

        Ah, whatever. It’s far too broad of a subject to be definite about. Too many factors at play

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        Aight I’ll put it on for an hour on YouTube vanced

        Edit:

        https://youtu.be/yu2oR1YU64A

        This guy is of far higher quality.

        The video you showed me, god damn… the rambling goes on and on. Do not pay for his lectures, he’s just stretching the hour and giving you no content. Just money money money

        This guy (even though you might hate him for being Israeli) is brilliant though. World renowned.