Judging from the information on https://wiki.netbsd.org/ports/, this is true, but not as true as it might appear at first glance. Linux for VAX is an obsolete(?) specialty port not available from most distros, and Itanium support has recently been discontinued, but I think Gentoo supports all the other variations listed. So BSD comes out on top by a hair due to continuing second-class VAX and Itanium support. The rest is just lumper-versus-splitter stuff.


Do use the Gentoo-provided minimal install iso as the host for the install, and not random live media, just to reduce the possibility of unexpected problems.
The handbook is actually pretty explicit on what commands you need to run for the base install. Read it through first. Take note of the places where you actually have to decide something (the biggest one is OpenRC vs. systemd, and you want to have that decision made before you start). Go with the default for anything you don’t really care about or that looks a bit complicated or scary. Absolutely do not skip steps (unless they’re marked “Optional”) even if you don’t yet understand what the step is for.
Working inside a VM insulates you from some of the worst gotchas you can run into on real hardware (like bad UEFI implementations), fortunately. Still, don’t try to build a custom kernel straight out the gate—just install the distro kernel for now.
If something goes wrong during the install, it can be best to take a break and come back later.
Once you’ve got the base system running, you’ll have another decision to make about X vs wayland and the various DE/WM/compositor options.