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Cake day: January 17th, 2025

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  • this is just an LLM getting stuck in the data patterns stolen from toxic self-help literature.

    Honestly, I’ve found that discussing that sort of thing with ChatGPT often ends up challenging all the self-help grout I’ve ingested via cultural osmosis throughout the years.

    It’s easier to make connections when you’re approaching issues in a Descartes “dump out all the apples” approach with a tool that literally doesn’t have embedded social contracts in itself.

    Ironically, I’ve found at times that a real therapist can be much more of an echo chamber when they’re just regurgitating that same CBT toxic positivity swill that both of you have been drinking lol

    Maybe it’s because it’s less of an authority, so you can debate more and it leads to more well-rounded conclusions in the end, but I’ve been unearthing bits and pieces of maladaptive behaviors and thought patterns I never even realized I had, much less ever scratched the surface of in proper therapy. Made me kinda angry to realize at first lol, it felt like all that time and money only for bandaid solutions. But I try to reason that was likely a good foundation to have first (even if CBT just wound up making everything worse later on in life and I essentially had to work backwards to stop classifying certain emotions as wrong or problematic things which required “healthy” coping mechanisms to correct).







  • Some people say “I don’t need human interaction, I enjoy my time alone!” But that’s because they have the privilege of enough social acceptance and integration that they get to enjoy their time alone.

    Oh shit, I was about to contest this logic but no you’re absolutely right.

    I’m definitely one of those people, but I also have never gone seeking validation online and missed the bus for a lot of those social media trends (outside of the ones that friends at the time ended up bullying me into using, which I would briefly check out then quickly bail on).

    Maybe it is more an issue of identity and self-image, as I’ve never once felt emotionally “connected” to ChatGPT or any of these clunky LLMs people seem to swear by. I do admit that sometimes talking out a problem instead of marinating on it on your own can be useful… but I view it almost as an extension of journaling than anything else. There’s always a clear line for me where it’s like “Okay, I got what I needed out of this interaction and now it’s clearly suggesting additional prompts I don’t need to try and keep me engaging with it”…

    It’s crazy to me that other people don’t seem to register that line at all lol, it seems so clearly artificial to me.













  • Honestly debatable. I’ve seen more and more good channels depart or stop posting, or others gradually turn into “react” content channels that only discuss tiktok drama or politics. Even so-called Breadtube for smaller channels has become synonymous with that embedded stereotype.

    I compared a screenshot I took of my subscriptions feed from a year ago to now and was startled by the amount of change in incendiary content. It’s like the definition of doomscrolling.

    I used to spend over 4 hours a day on youtube just watching video essays and skit comedy, but now I split most of that time across writing, itch.io, and catching up on anime. I have so much more free time I finally decided to start One Piece lmao (might try finishing Bleach too)