Depends what the relationship between me and the person they cheated with is.

If it’s my brother (or anyone I know well) they cheated with, sure I’d confront him. If it’s some stranger, no.

I mean, if you simply want your code to be available somewhere so that you can access it from anywhere/have a backup, you can just not use any “service” at all. Just make a bare git repo on your server and expose it via ssh.

Only if you really need the collaboration features should you be using these kind of services, otherwise you just don’t really need them. (I would use Forgejo from Codeberg.)

But if you use this app, you would be using BT, so turn it on…