I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

  • Crass Spektakel@lemmy.world
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    I know I am late to this discussion but I also have given up on Lemmy. Instead of decentralised company we got little fiefdoms with local land lords acting often worse than the worst Reddit moderators.

    Where Reddit is suffocating in overruling even simple subreddits - on Lemmy we saw a land rush where often people squatted groups with topics they openly oppose and only use to harass everyone who disagrees with their opinion. Seriously, I have seem Lemmy-Groups about Muslims run by Muslim-Haters, Groups about Judaism run by Jew-Haters and so on.

    Oh, I still thing Reddit is a rotten place but it has its nieche corners where it shines. Lemmy? I have only found one single Group I am actually interested in and where the moderators are acting reasonable. Honestly, Lemmy could be nice if there wasn’t such an ungodly amount of haters in power positions and people would be more chill about differences and mistakes.

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    Comming from Reddit, I find it really peaceful, but IDK how it was before. Except for the people at Hexbear who bullied me for liking South Park. The socalled “dirtbag left” is basically the proudboys pretending to be far-left.

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      Liberals just can’t fathom the possibility that socialists walk among us, therefore they must be cryptofascists or paid shills of foreign States.

      I assure you that we have been here all along, despite two red scares and a cold war to try to purge us.

      It’s pretty insulting, considering that American socialists helped bring about the weekend and the eight hour workday.

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        There are socialists, and then there is a fairly new wave of terminally online toxic assholes borrowing socialist rhetoric.

        There is a difference between activism and empty virtue signaling. A huge portion of the online left is more interested in letting everyone know how pissed off they are than actually making the cultural gains necessary to improve anything.

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          Plus they think the stupidest shit matters.

          Earlier I saw people complaining about the Hogwarts game because of JK Rowling. Yeah, don’t play the videogame based on the book series that was written by a transphobe. Cause somehow that means the videogame and it’s developers are all transphobic too?

          Someone should tell them transphobic people breathe oxygen, maybe they’ll suffocate themselves as activism.

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            I mean I boycott products if I don’t agree where the money is going. Nestle, Amazon, Israel (BDS), etc etc. Everyone who has the capacity should at the very least try to avoid funding people and projects they think are detrimental to life.

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        There’s people who are constructive and try to be polite who have different world views, and then there’s the people who just insult and spam racial slurs. The second category gets a block on offending users and a block on an entire community if it’s repeated

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    Yeah, probably a little, but this same change was 1000x more noticeable like half a year ago when reddit banned third-party apps. I think it’s reasonable to lament the change, and I kind of miss the tight-knit community from the first three years I was here, but it’s still worth celebrating the platform taking off. Ultimately all you can do is be the change you wish to see in the world.

    That said, if we start getting heavily astroturfed with bots and spam I’m going to be a little less zen about it.

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      That said, if we start getting heavily astroturfed with bots and spam I’m going to be a little less zen about it.

      The spammers aren’t here in custom full-force software_dev_lemmy_bots mode yet, but when they come, moderation tool development will increase in effort tenfold.

      The nation states are already using their “play Guess The Bot and lose” games. It’s the ones who post often and with clear lines in the sand you need to worry about. Problem is, there is a sea of regular people just like that.

      Lemmy needs to go through a fork or three before it becomes viable to the mainstream. Currently Lemmy users produce much less legitimate worthwhile information on far less subjects than reddit, and even Quora shudder thinking about it.

      Granted, I’ve only been here for about a week before reddit disabled 3rd party apps. Maybe the first 3 years were the golden years. I’m only speaking as to the bot infestation I see currently.

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    Yes! I’ve been seeing a lot of toxic comments and posts lately. It’s kinda turning into a niche hyper toxic reddit.

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      many, if not most of the popular/highly-trafficked communities are basically echo chambers now, anyone who disagrees with whatever the cookie-cutter general consensus of the day is becomes a hate magnet.