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Cake day: June 4th, 2025

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  • What we really need is an alternative to the the original functionality of Facebook.

    Staying connected with real life friends, family, and acquaintances.

    Social event planning, sharing life photos, sharing life updates, hell even marketplace.

    All the federated “alternatives” are basically twitter clones, which really is a very different thing at its core. I do not want to share family photos and life updates with the whole fucking planet. Just the 500ish people I “know” in real life. I also don’t want to see tweet like mastodon posts in my friend feed. Its a different thing.

    I know friendica is supposed to be that, but in my experience, its slow as hell, and just feels like a weird overlay on mastodon.






  • The reality is none of this insanity has directly effected me. So day to day life, working, raising kids, etc. is completely normal for me. However, keeping up with news. Feeling empathy for people being effected now, and worrying about when the other shoe is going to drop on me and my family stresses me out. I don’t like being stressed out and avoid stress as much as possible, so I find myself just trying to stay distracted with hobbies, video games, etc. Then I feel guilty about distracting myself. If I can’t do much about the situation, I should at least inform myself about it. But then there comes the stress again…

    So yeah, in a way add me to the crashing out list I guess.





  • I think its a better than nothing kind of option for some families living in remote places or living very itinerant lifestyles

    But in general, I think its just a way for parents to keep their kids as indoctrinated into their fucked up beliefs as they can.

    Also, growing up I knew many homeschooled kids through boyscouts, and they were almost always socially stunted, and often intellectually behind because their parents were barely teaching them anything.




  • I think there is an American ritual aspect to it. I hate football and never watch it other than the super bowl. I’ve always just watched it for the funny ads, halftime show, and social gathering aspect. There is nostalgia for the 90s-00s where funny Superbowl ads became cultural touchstones, and early “memes” that people would quote and talk about the rest of the year if not more. Though honestly, it feels like the mojo is gone. The ads rarely seem as funny as they used to be. Or maybe we are just so inundated with internet ads and the lightspeed meme cycle that they simply can’t draw the same level of cultural relevance they once did.